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A Quiet Compass

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Self Map

Your layers

Hello, You.

The four numbers that make you who you are aren't labels. They are layers — different angles on the same person. Read them like chapters of a single book.

HOW YOU CONNECT

My close relationships, in general

Room for closeness.

Explore how comfortable you feel opening up, asking for support and feeling secure in close relationships.

Think about how you usually feel in this context. There are no right or wrong answers. Choose how much you agree with each statement.

9 statements · about 3 minutes · at your pace

Private, on this device. Included in backups; never shared with your partner or automatically synced.

About the assessment and sources

ECR-RS · Fraley, Heffernan, Vicary & Brumbaugh (2011). Two dimensions, on a 1–7 scale. Avoidance: average of items 1–6, reversing 1–4. Anxiety: average of items 7–9.

The Romanian wording is an app translation without confirmed Romanian psychometric validation. A tool for self-reflection, not a diagnosis.

The interpretation uses the scale midpoint (4) as an illustrative reference, with a ±0.5 transition band. These are not clinical cutoffs. Patterns can differ across relationships and over time. The two dimensions combine into four styles (secure, anxious, avoidant, fearful) and the hybrids between them; a hybrid appears when one dimension is in the transition band.

How close your position is to each corner of the map. A geometric calculation by the app, not a probability or a diagnosis. Fearful means anxious-avoidant.

The author's instrument and instructions ↗

Coming chapters

PuzzleTimelineCyclesWhat If

01 — Blueprint

The foundation.

Your numbers, your signs, your type — gathered into one portrait of who you actually are.